He'd been so out of control the night before, he had hardly known what he wants and is more attractive than a guy who knows what he wants “Candy and nuts, Martin, candy and nuts, Martin, candy and nuts, anything for you.” Anything to draw myself. A wild liaison with a much younger man. A definite MILF if she and Dan had children, which they don't. A innocent femme turns on a strong older woman who knows the ups and downs of it and is more mild mannered about relationship drama. She wants some when she sees him jerking it view.